Wow. Who in your group represents the Lollipop Guild?
I thought I was a wuss player-coddling DM with 32 point buy (using DMG) and allowing a choice of average hit points (alternating with level, so, for a D10, 6, then 5, then 6, then 5) or a roll *with me watching*. No one chooses the roll.
Classed monsters get elite stats; otherwise, by-the-book. (Elites also get action points, since the PCs get them as per Unearthed Arcana.)
I haven't rolled for hit points in 8 years. Does anyone? If 4e make rolling optional, I think it will just be reflecting the way most people play.