The Crimson Binome
Hero
I don't really follow. How does a player "feel" a penalty from having a low stat, generally speaking? If you make a lot of checks, and you often fail because of your low stat, then the player can "feel" that. Based on personal experience, though, it takes a lot before the impact is felt. My last character was a fighter with a Dex of 5, and it honestly didn't come up much. Sure, I was a little later in the initiative order and ate a few more fire spells than I would have with Dex 12, but it's not like anyone else was always going first or avoiding all the fire.They can fix the other ability scores too (Strength, Intelligence) if/when they changed Constitution. There are ways to do so, fairly simple ways. PCs feel a penalty when they have low Dexterity (heavy armor or not), low Charisma, and low Wisdom (though it is to a lesser extent than the penalties of low Charisma and Dexterity).
Do you just play up the narrative of being inferior, as though the numbers actually represented the spectrum of real world possibilities? Do you pretend that Wisdom 8 means you're oblivious, even though you're objectively pretty average by any quantifiable measure?