To fit into your existing sphere of Life being Order and Creation while Death is Chaos and Destruction, Chaos and Creation could be newness and change, possibility. Order and Destruction is tougher because it is going to overlap with your views of Chaos Destruction. Inevitability, inexorable decay, and entropy can work for Ordered Destruction. So Chaos Destruction is the sharp complete change of Life to Death, while Order progresses Destruction ever onward, entropy being a law of the universe.