*offers cake round*
It's good.
As a note on how I am, I tend to take the mickey(wind people up, make mean jokes) out of people I like. Please read any thing I say as a joke for the most part, I'll try and note serious stuff. If I do offend people I apologise but pull me on it and I'll stop using you as a target. Ginnel may remember from games many years ago that this is my way.
Goldmoon - I hope things go well, I tend to run on a "all relationships are compromise" thought, just make sure it's pretty even. You sound like you could be on the edge of something wonderful. Though I have to ask if she is an officer and has a pod and you don't isn't it fraternising (or what ever the word is)?