payn
Glory to Marik
For me its a matter of degrees. Good characters are going to kill, though, in self defense or as a last resort only. If killing is a conflict resolution choice the character goes to often, they are evil.Am I supposed to feel sorry for a guy who seemed to make his living in attempting to assassinate district attorneys? There was a fight, Stilt-Man had his powered armor, and he lost.
Is Conan evil? Is Gimli evil to offer to "ease the passing" of a mortally wounded orc in exchange for information? Is Captain Jack Sparrow evil? Are mercenaries an inherently evil profession? To me, generally speaking, no. To show mercy on the battlefield is an example of good, but not showing mercy to an armed foe who had been fighting you isn't evil to me. But, as I already said in my OP, I have a larger view of neutral than most, and I reserve evil to represent heinous actions.
I also dont give folks a hard time (unless they make a deal of it like a LG pally) if they push the boundaries of their alignment. I mean thats where the best role play comes from. When the character steps out and uncharacteristically engages an evil act that's worth examining. If they continue to do it, then that's an alignment shift.