That reminds me of the time on Usenet a guy ranted about how women can’t right proper (=hard) sf, and used a book by Catherine Asaro as an example. She replied that it’s Dr. Catherine Asaro and that the bit he was complaining about was speculation directly related to her dissertation and subsequent publications, which she cited.
For some reason, the guy didn’t return to the thread.
Rebecca Solnit has a collection of essays titled Men Explain Things To Me, which is alternately hilarious and infuriating. Guys can of course also be jerks to each other, it’s just that epic mansplaining and comebacks are often gendered. No Get Away From Jerks card is intended or implied.