How to Play D&D With Your Buddies from Highschool

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In the "Golden Age" thread we have had a couple people mention that their Golden Age of D&D was when playing the game with old high school buddies. I'm using "high school" here as a general label simply alluding to the fact that some of us may have played the game in our younger years with good friends, but those friends have since spread across whatever landmass you're on and have jobs, families, responsibilities, etc. that did not exist in those heady days of yore.

This fits me, and to address that issue my old-time gamer friends and I meet 1-2 times yearly in a 'reunion' of sorts. We use someone's house if someone's wife decides to vacate for the weekend. We've also rented houses and adjoining hotel rooms. We do a marathon session, usually Thurs-Sun. Lots of bad food, cheap beer, and rolling dice.

For those who do this sort of thing, care to share your experiences and/or advice?

For those who don't, here's one guy who recommends that you should. It's an awesome, nostalgic-filled nerdfest.

Another option - which scratches the itch but does it only in the barest manner - is to play online. We use Fantasy Grounds.

Back in 2001 we had our first "reunion session" that was planned to be more a beer-drinking and barbecue get-together with gaming thrown into the mix almost as an afterthought. We had so much fun with 3E, however, that we decided to continue the bi-annual tradition and have done so these past eight years.

I certainly have to make concessions to my wife, who doesn't look as fondly upon those weekends as I do, but it all works out in the end.

Again, I bet you'd be surprised that some of those old buddies who perhaps haven't gamed since the late 80s would jump at the chance to give it a shot.

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Sounds great, but I still play with my friends from high school every week ;)

We do however ditch the wives once per year, and spend a weekend of gaming in a summer house owned by one of the players. It's awesome and highly recommendable.
 

Graduated over 20 years ago andfI play regularly with 3 guys i knew in highschool: two guys kicked off the football team for being too violent and my dad. One of my best friends from school lives the next town over and our kids play rpgs together and we do when our schedules allow.
Keep talking to your friends and you get to keep playing with them when you can.
 

I think I can 'one-up' you...

;)

My 'friends from high school' have scattered to the four winds and while those of my 'Second Golden Age', basically my early thirties, also live very far from each other now, we do get together periodically (about 2-3 times a year as with the OP).

However, one of the reasons its so hard to get us together is because we're missing the person who really got everything going, my ex-wife. She loves to game and was excellent at coordinating get-togethers. My group boasts an almost equal number of gals to guys as everyone's significant other is a gamer. Booyah! :D

Unfortunately, my ex is in China (and as such has trouble making it to the games on time in New Jersey. Go figure!). She is teaching English over there and hopefully we'll get to see each other when she next visits the States.

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Oh yeah, Geekfest was born 2003 when my high school DnD friends (Iowa City City High class of '89) and i decided we wanted to game together. We figured every other year would not tick off the wives too much since we were shooting for a whole week. My wife loves Ragbrai, so we're good since she wants a week to bike!

One guy lived in close enough to the Lake of the Ozarks that he volunteered to be Point Man and drive there, get the keys, fill the refrigerator with food and beer. Some of us flew in, others drove. Having at least one car to pick up those who flew and to resupply was handy, two cars even better.

We found the house online, one of the wives loves to find deals and was super kewl about finding it for us. We kept track of how much we spent on food and drink and at the end of the week squared off the bill. We made a master list beforehand of initial food and drink we wanted, how many cases of beer, bread, meat and cheese, etc. Breakfast and lunch was grab and go, but we planned dinners, and that was fun as we each took one night to cook, to whatever skill we had. Later Geekfests one of the guys would take on the lions share of cooking dinners since he loved to cook!

I made sure to bring my espresso maker as the houses don't come with one i've found. Must have Mocha! :D

We knew we wouldn't play 24-7 so we bring DVDs, short things like Family Guy, Firefly, Rome. Video games are also a nice diversion for time not playing DnD.

The rental is from Saturday to Saturday so we all show up and visit and catch up Saturday, then roll up our PCs. Since we only have the week, we usually start off somewhere around 2nd-4th level (last year was EtCR so we started 6th) and rule of Geekfest was gain 1 level a day. No matter how much we did, that evening before we went to bed we leveled up! So if we started Sunday at 2nd level, then Friday we started at 7th. The 2nd Saturday is for cleaning and getting outta there.

One other thing we did was make a poster, one of the guys has access to a large printer at work so he'll print one with bold letters "Geekfest" with all our names on it, maybe some inside jokes or whatever. He's also our pointman so he has it hanging outside when we arrive, then when we're all there we bring it in and use it as a quote board. Whenever something funny or otherwise awesome is said, it goes on the poster. At the end of the week, one of us keeps it. I was last to get married, so for awhile I had them all posted up on my basement walls. :cool: Yes, she still married me!

That's all I can think of at the moment. All I can say then is it is SO much fun playing with the ol' gang. I can't wait for July '09 for Geekfest 4 !!!

Good gaming all!

Edit: I'll add we don't play at anyone's house, or my place here in our hometown. Why? Family. If their families knew they were in town for a week and didn't visit. The shame. :^) Renting a house means isolation and focus on our gathering.
 
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Oh yeah, Geekfest was born 2003 when my high school DnD friends (Iowa City City High class of '89) and i decided we wanted to game together. We figured every other year would not tick off the wives too much since we were shooting for a whole week. My wife loves Ragbrai, so we're good since she wants a week to bike!

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Edit: I'll add we don't play at anyone's house, or my place here in our hometown. Why? Family. If their families knew they were in town for a week and didn't visit. The shame. :^) Renting a house means isolation and focus on our gathering.

That is a really really good idea.

Renting your own house for a week solves a lot of problems.

I managed to keep together my high school group for about 4 years after we got out of high school. Ironically, we played more often. But then people just drifted apart. I wanted to do some kind of reunion, but wasn't sure how.

Thank you!
 

A bunch of friends and I have an annual weekend getaway in the north Georgia mountains. It does serve to scratch the gaming itch for a good long while and everyone can relax and enjoy playing. For older players like myself I do suggest a weekend vacation for gaming. It's a different experience than a con and just as fun.
 



While I'm more than a little jealous that people manage annual/semi-annual reunions, I did manage to get together with three old gaming buddies from highschool just last summer.

I was on a business trip and managed to reconnect with a friend who I knew to be living in the area, another friend had recently moved into the vicinity, and yet another friend was on a bit of a promo junket in the area. We managed to conect for supper and then, spur of the moment, started a game...which lasted minutes before I had to admin a conference the next day :)

I don't think I've laughed that hard, or long, in years. I really wish we could do that more often.
 

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