Olaf the Stout
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ssampier said:I wonder what class he's going put his levels in
I'm guessing Commoner!
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I... actually met a girl!
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I'm guessing Commoner!
Olaf the Stout
Olaf the Stout
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Aaron L said:
Yeah, I hear that they are pretty strict on enforcing the optional training rules for that class.
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Aaron L
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Well, Elaina doesnt want to see me anymore. We got pretty drunk together Halloween night and she told me a few stories about ex boyfriends. and asked me about some of mine, and I had to tell her that I've never had a girlfriend before and she was the first girl I ever went out with. She got a weird look on her face and said that kind of freaked her out, and then didnt really say much to me the rest of the night. Then the next day she sent me a text message saying she would be my friend but she didnt want a long distance relationship. Its funny,. but it never seemed to bother her before that night. Thenm when I asked her if it would have worked out if I lived in pittsburgh too and she said yes, but she had never even considered it so it didnt matter, it really hurt. She hadnt ever considered it? Then why had we been talking every day for the past month and gone out twice?
I dont understand, and Im feeling really numb and empty so I dont really want to try to understand right now.
That same night my dog died. I'm not kidding at all. He was fifteen, and Ive been pretty well devastated by everything.
I have another back surgery on tuesday. Im almost hoping I dont wake up from it.
I dont understand, and Im feeling really numb and empty so I dont really want to try to understand right now.
That same night my dog died. I'm not kidding at all. He was fifteen, and Ive been pretty well devastated by everything.
I have another back surgery on tuesday. Im almost hoping I dont wake up from it.
Mycanid
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Whoa ... when it rains it pours. 
I'm so sorry this all happened to you like that. It hurts when either thing happens, let alone one after the other.
God bless you Aaron. We all in here will be here for you if you need to talk more about it. Sometimes talking/thinking out loud helps.
For what it is worth ... I will pray for you too.
I'm so sorry this all happened to you like that. It hurts when either thing happens, let alone one after the other.
God bless you Aaron. We all in here will be here for you if you need to talk more about it. Sometimes talking/thinking out loud helps.
For what it is worth ... I will pray for you too.
nerfherder
Adventurer
Man, I'm sorry to hear this. Sorry that it didn't work out with the girl and I'm really sorry about your dog.
Sometimes people do things that you just aren't going to understand. You'll feel crap for a while, and there's no harm in a little bit of self-pity (we've all been there), but the best thing you can then do is put her behind you as a learning experience, not harbour any bitterness, and move on to the next cute girl that you'll meet.
Good luck with the surgery next week.
Cheers,
Liam
Sometimes people do things that you just aren't going to understand. You'll feel crap for a while, and there's no harm in a little bit of self-pity (we've all been there), but the best thing you can then do is put her behind you as a learning experience, not harbour any bitterness, and move on to the next cute girl that you'll meet.
Good luck with the surgery next week.
Cheers,
Liam
Olaf the Stout
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Man that sucks, especially about your dog. There's plenty of other girls out there that you could date, but losing a dog that you've had for 15 years is a lot harder to get over. I feel for you.
And in regards to the girl, sure it sucks now, and it may take a while to get over but you will eventually. I think the best thing is to get right back on the bike and try again. If you meet another girl you will quickly find yourself saying, "Elaina who?" And hopefully you have learned from the experience and are more confident about yourself and being around women for next time.
When life hands you lemons, just try and make some lemonade. Hopefully your luck will turn around soon.
Olaf the Stout
And in regards to the girl, sure it sucks now, and it may take a while to get over but you will eventually. I think the best thing is to get right back on the bike and try again. If you meet another girl you will quickly find yourself saying, "Elaina who?" And hopefully you have learned from the experience and are more confident about yourself and being around women for next time.
When life hands you lemons, just try and make some lemonade. Hopefully your luck will turn around soon.
Olaf the Stout
Aurora
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That sucks man. I too am sorry to hear this. It wasn't meant to be. A "break-up" of any kind is NEVER easy. Even if it was only a couple dates and a lot of phone conversations. It just takes time to get over it. Things WILL get better and it will hurt less. Just think though, the next time you go out with a girl it won't be the first time. My condolences on your dog as well.
Good luck on Tuesday. Try to stay optimistic, it's not good to go into surgery feeling that way. ((HUGS)) -Aurora
Good luck on Tuesday. Try to stay optimistic, it's not good to go into surgery feeling that way. ((HUGS)) -Aurora
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