I cheated last game session

just__al said:
My theory is that the DM is a BOZO with a tenous grasp on the rules and the CR system.

I agree that it seems that the DM is inexperienced with 3.5, felt the encounters getting out of hand and did a terrible job winging it. His plan for the outcome wasn't happening the way he/she expected and choked a bit.

Elf Witch, I wouldn't worry about it. Talk to the DM openly with the other players in a friendly manner in an effort to make the game better and I am sure that you'll get the whole story and the game will improve.

But to play the devil's advocate for a smidgeon of a sec here....

Reading this thread, I wonder why so many players feel like every encounter is supposed to be CR appropriate? I mean, if a party dashes over the hill to respond to cries, and then get mad if it's Hill Giants and they are 2nd level PCs, it's not the GMs fault if they take on the monsters and get their asses handed to them.

Not every thing a party meets will be an evenly match CR appropriate encounter. Try GMing/playing a Necromacer Games module and you will know what I am talking about.

Maybe in this scenario, there was suppposed to be ANOTHER way to save the PCs from jail, or maybe even find out the sentencing for their crimes and wait it the jail term or something else other than taking on the 13th level sorcerer/assassin.

So many players seem to think that if their PCs are caught breaking the law, and are put in jail, then it must be time for a jail break.

I don't know, if I am wrong about this, then never mind.

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EDIT: OK -- Just read Elf Witch's most recent post. The DM is a Bozo. I can't believe that all this "DM roleplaying the PC" crap was happening! I would have stopped him and said. "WAIT... I am not driving 90mph OK! And when I notice the 100 other cars going in the other direction I realize the problem."

Why is the DM roleplaying your PC for you? Maybe it is time to leave the game. Are there other places you can play?
 
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i myself have been looking for an update rgard has a point just take a gameing break from them for a bit see how it goes..also on the shadowrun thing have to say i wouldnt have went with the flow as much as u did at least i would have made them kill me or shot his storyline badly by killing as meanny cops as i could sorry just the way i see it if he wants to railroad u that bad let him have it
 

Hmmm, after that last update, and including the information about the Shadowrun game I have to say that you need to find a new games master. This one is just plain bad. There are millions of people in England, the odds of hitting an MP is so slim as to be nonexistant.

Ask the other players for their opinions, but do not ask the GM this time. If there is someone else interested in running the game then simply tell the control freak that he is out. I do not think that you will have a good time with the game as it now stands. :(

I hope you can get a game going that you can have fun in.

The Auld Grump
 

catsclaw227 said:
I agree that it seems that the DM is inexperienced with 3.5, felt the encounters getting out of hand and did a terrible job winging it. His plan for the outcome wasn't happening the way he/she expected and choked a bit.

Elf Witch, I wouldn't worry about it. Talk to the DM openly with the other players in a friendly manner in an effort to make the game better and I am sure that you'll get the whole story and the game will improve.

But to play the devil's advocate for a smidgeon of a sec here....

Reading this thread, I wonder why so many players feel like every encounter is supposed to be CR appropriate? I mean, if a party dashes over the hill to respond to cries, and then get mad if it's Hill Giants and they are 2nd level PCs, it's not the GMs fault if they take on the monsters and get their asses handed to them.

Not every thing a party meets will be an evenly match CR appropriate encounter. Try GMing/playing a Necromacer Games module and you will know what I am talking about.

Maybe in this scenario, there was suppposed to be ANOTHER way to save the PCs from jail, or maybe even find out the sentencing for their crimes and wait it the jail term or something else other than taking on the 13th level sorcerer/assassin.

So many players seem to think that if their PCs are caught breaking the law, and are put in jail, then it must be time for a jail break.

I don't know, if I am wrong about this, then never mind.

[/rant]

EDIT: OK -- Just read Elf Witch's most recent post. The DM is a Bozo. I can't believe that all this "DM roleplaying the PC" crap was happening! I would have stopped him and said. "WAIT... I am not driving 90mph OK! And when I notice the 100 other cars going in the other direction I realize the problem."

Why is the DM roleplaying your PC for you? Maybe it is time to leave the game. Are there other places you can play?


I wanted to add that as player I don't expect every encounter to be tailored for our level. There are some things that should make you go "oh crap" and run away.

I also agree that a jailbreak is not always the answer. You can do a lot of things, bribe the guards, wait it out, use diplomacy with the city magistrate.

But when your DM send trusted allies and tells you that if you don't move and get you party members out of jail they will not live through the night and that the city guard has been infiltrated by a powerful assassin's group and that they know the way in then I think it is pretty clear that he wants you to follow this. That he has planned for the session to be a jailbreak and he had some encounters planned for.

So I would think given all that he would plan a CR encounter that we can possible overcome. I can just imagine if we had chossen not to do this then we would have a had DM going on a board complaining that no matter what hooks he puts into his game the players refuse to follow them and they end up spinning their wheels.

I don't consider this railroading sometimes a DM has to do things like this to plan out the session or get the plot moving.

I did tell him I had no problem with this and that I had no problem with the BBEG teleporting away. But I did tell him that it kind of sucks the fun out of the game for me when the monsters or BBEG breaks the rules and that ends in my character's death. If you kill me fairly I may be sad about it but I don't feels as if the DM was gunning for my character.

He did admit that he did not understand the whole movement issue and that he looked it up and realized that even with te monsters special abilities he should have not been able to reach me and that he had forgotten the whole movement and full attack rules. And he asked if we would tell him if we thought it was not being handled right in the future.

okay that was a postive thing.

But one thing we disagree on and we have talked a lot via email last night was that sometimes he feels that he needs to mantipulate the PCs to get the plot going he needs us to do something or he needs to show us something.

An example is we have special necklaces that we wear in Shadowrun to prevent this one group from using blood magic to target us they have our freaking DNA. So out of the blue one session he tells me to make a perception roll and I find out that I am being targeted magically. It turns out I didn't have my necklace on.

But I had never said I had taken it off. My character is the mage and experienced with the dangers of blood magic. I really felt that it made my character look stupid. If he had done it in a diffeernt way like say it had come off while I was sleeping I would be cool with that.

I told him I don't like bad things happening to my character or having bad things things happen to the party because of something my character did if I had no say in it no control over my PCs actions believe me I can get in enough trouble all on my own. ;)

He feels that there should be more trust between us. He ponted out that we had been playing Shadowrun for a long time without these issues popping their head up.

And he is right. I think why this has become such an issue for me in Shadowrun is that before our team knew each other trusted each other and knew that we could count on each other. The four orginial players always had a blast. But we lost a player who had been playing the team leader and the DMs oldest friend joined the group.

This guy is a role player he refuses to ever metagame so he has been role playing that he finds my character to be incompetent because of the necklace issue and now the driving issue. And so there is a lot of tension between party members over this. I pointed this out to the DM that in all the many sessions we played before I never felt incompetent or that I had to prove myself to the team.

If it had been the old group with the motorcyle incident it would have been handled differently. The team leader would have been like lets pay off the MP or lets break into the system and doctor the files before it goes to court and we would have joked about how Jag (my character) thinks she owns the road. But not once would it have been brought up that my character could not be trusted or would my character have been told off by the rest of the party.

So I realize that in Shadowrun at least it is not that the DM is doing anything different it is the new dynamic at the table that is really coloring things for me.

I told the DM if the new player was going to play his character so judgemental then the only way I could continue to play was if the DM does not but me into situations that I have no control over my character decisions. That it is not that I don't trust him it is that I don't enjoy having to deal with this new issue.
 

On the other hand this DM gas shown that you really can't trust him.

If he had told me I did stuff as stupid as the stuff that he has told you that your character did without my consent then I would lambaste mim at the table, publicly. 'No, I did not take your stupid metaplot necklace off. My character does magic for a living, and if you think that he would be that stupid then you have another think coming.' I would not be subtle, I would be only marginally polite. And I would make sure that I got my point across that his railroading stinks on ice on a cold day.

The Auld Grump
 

Elf Witch --

I understand that many of these players are long time friends and gaming partners. Has anyone else spoken up about these issues? In truth, if I forced situations or conditions on my players that they didn't do (such as telling them that suddenly they aren't wearing a necklace that they always wear), they'd gang tackle me.
 

In regards to the Shadowrun situation: it's Shadowrun, kill his character. Perhaps the next one will not have trust issues. :]

~Qualidar~
 

Actually, On a more helpfull note: tell the guy that it'a ruining your enjoyment of the game, and to stop. When he comes back with the excuse that he's only roll-playing his character: tell him to stop.
 

Hmmm, I have realized why this annoys me so much, the very first DM I ever had used to pull this crap*. Shortly thereafter I ended up running my first campaign, while the former DM wondered why everyone agreed to dump him. It still makes smoke billow out of my ears. :p

The Auld Grump

*Worse, he allowed his best friend to cast charm person on the whole party, and effectively run the entire party by himself. And he allowed the BF to command people to not make saving throws against later charm persons. *BOOT!*
 

All I have to say is that if you're grumbling about the game, it's not making you happy. Furthermore, and I'm saying this from experience, it doesn't matter what you're doing; whether it's playing in a game, working a job, heck, even married to someone; and you are are miserable, you need to get yourself out of it. People generally want to give the benefit of the doubt - you've extolled your DM's virtues in other areas, not just gaming-related. That doesn't mean that you have to make or keep yourself unhappy for them. The insidious part is you won't realize how much you were discontent until you're out of it. I know you may feel guilty, and I know you might be sad about it, but quit the group... it's what's for the best. Maybe start a new game DMing, or find another game in your area to play in. Just don't let bad things drag you down.
 

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