I m a girl get over it

[Nifelhein]

Sine there are 4 pages of replies i will reply directly to the first post. My girlfriend has surely no interest in gaming, but that doe not make me think she is where she should, i invited a girl I know to play with my group last year, she ended up going out of the group simply because she could not show up on the sessions on time or just ended up showing she was not in for the game.

I don't think sexism has a place in games and one of my friends who gms a game and plays in mine believes we should b making more female references in the game, more queens, more woman as heroes, more woman fighters, ad so on. Look at a MM and you see that all females there are like either half human half beast or just godly beauties that surely are out of a comic book somewhere.

Any girl that wants to play at my table is welcome, what she needs to do is the sme everyone else, respect the master decisions at the moment and maybe discuss it after the game, show up on time and also, have fun.

Everything else is not to be taken into account, you know less, so what, you can learn, you are a woman, so what, I love women, I want drinks, so what, i can get one for you too as will already have gone to the chicken.

If your boyfriends are like that, make your own group, there are just so many people who want to play.

 

[Sarajaine"The Solar"]

He'll either kill you, or come out of the gamer closet. Though I wonder if the fact that he's in the closet was part of how he was able to get a "normal" like yourself?

Naaah, if he kills you, he's gonna kill everyone on this thread who is offering you their heart, too. And that's a lot of effort. I'd be more worried about him exposing YOUR embarassing facts to someone.

A normal! Just because you like dnd doesn't make you any less normal than me The only difference between a gamer and any other person is that they probably have more of a flare when it comes to escapism and a bigger imagination.

Regarding my secret, I'm not ashamed of my love for geeks I just wish they would stop thinking they can't get a normal attractive girl just because they play dnd..its not like you all have the bubonic plague or anything! You give yourselves a stigma by being so paranoid about it... any girl worth knowing will like you for who you are and except that gaming is a part of that

 

[Sarajaine"The Solar"]

Any girl that wants to play at my table is welcome

Its a shame you live at the other side of the atlantic or else I would join your game!

 

[Nifelhein]

Sure, if you happen to drop by sometime I wil give you some role for a session or two, that can be entertaining too.

As for the geek thing, i am not a geek anymore, neither are any of my friends who play with me, but this is the geek heirloom we bear, DnD is mostly a geek area and we know that, our gfs have a problem with the sessions now and then, so that is why we play mostly on Sunday mornings.

Being a geek or a "cool" gy has nothing to do with what kind of girl you get, at least appearence wise, sure we like gaming, sure we like computers, but hey, we like women all the same, or man for some here.

If getting a "hot chick" is something a DnD player should not be allowed, my friends and I sure have a feat that allows us to do that.

 

[Sarajaine"The Solar"]

If getting a "hot chick" is something a DnD player should not be allowed, my friends and I sure have a feat that allows us to do that.

I agree gaming should have nothing to do with getting a hot gf. I think its the long swords and the armour. Chicks dig a guy in uniform and when they slay dragons for fun....it does things to a woman

 

[S'mon]

Sarajaine, you're in north of England, right? There's a lot of good University games clubs up there, you look young enough to be a student so I reckon you could sneak into one. Just a thought. When I was a student in Sheffield the club there was very good and had lots of female members, including a good proportion of the administration.

 

[Nifelhein]

I am sure some people might have pointed out to you, but you could find a game to play online, a PbP, you sure will have fun, learn a bit more about the game rules 9which ahs nothing to do with learning the game, at least for me).

By the way, what kind of fantasy style do you like the most, I am into the Midnight setting, which is kind of a battle against all odds, the world was taken and you can't do a thing to change it (not really true, but the feel is that), being a hero when no one else can, having what everyone else lost: hope.

There are many other kinds of settigns out there.

Also, when anyone asks me what rpg is I usually reply by asking them two things: have you ever seen the cartoon Dungeons and Dragons? Have you ever play child games where you were a policeman and your friend a thief? well, that is what rpgs are all about:

Being something you are not, doign what you could otherwise never do and telling a story you usually just read in books, except that now you are one of the authors and has no control on how it all comes to be.

 

[Sarajaine"The Solar"]

Sarajaine, you're in north of England, right? There's a lot of good University games clubs up there, you look young enough to be a student so I reckon you could sneak into one. Just a thought. When I was a student in Sheffield the club there was very good and had lots of female members, including a good proportion of the administration.

I have finished studying and never really looked at the society boards for potential gamers and clubs. I will have to go to the union and investigate.......

 

[Rel]

*Rel clicks on the "bikini pic link".*

*Rel notes that Sarajaine is hotter than Dragongirl.*

*Rel pops open a beer and sits back waiting for the trainwreck to start.*

 

[Belen]

*Rel clicks on the "bikini pic link".*

*Rel notes that Sarajaine is hotter than Dragongirl.*

*Rel pops open a beer and sits back waiting for the trainwreck to start.*

Whatever happened to Dragongirl or Djeta? They just disappeared.