Bleys Icefalcon
First Post
The DM isn't enjoying the game, and is considering quitting. So, no, it's not OK.
I'd tell the group flat out that you're unhappy and need a change or you're going to hand off DMing to someone else. Either way, the problem will get resolved.
I had to do this very thing. We were rambling through a 3.5 Dungeon, and the party came across a red skinned woman (no not a racial slur, a woman, with crimson red skin). They realized it was the main antagonist; a Red Dragon, who'd shape changed into humanoid form. Two of them engaged her two lackeys (modified Ju Ju Zombies - updated to 3.5), while the rest all initiated:
G R A P P L E S
This turned into a furious rules battle between two Meta-gamers, the DM (me) and a trouble maker who just liked to argue but didn't really have a horse in the race. 3 frigging hours worth. The party was all roughly 4th-6th level. The "rules" had her not only Grappled, but pinned and completely helpless, said rules went on to state that "She could perform no action, no spells, not even talk, without the consent of the grappler". The room she was in was not much larger than a prison cell, she could not become her full size.
1500 year old Adult Red Dragon, ECL 15. 3 low levels wtfpwned her in about 5 seconds flat; one of who was a twinked monk with mad grappling skeelz.
Please understand, the rules lawyers had been running our game (I was the DM) for several sessions now, and this was the final straw. I was done. Over it. Finished. I had been playing some form of this game since College, and I am 50. I was ready to quit completely that night. In fact I DID quit. The next day I got a call from a long time gaming friend, and we commiserated over the old 1.0/2.0 Days - how ti was more about story and role play and fun, and not so ONLY about twinking and build.
And I unquit.
The next game I had them put away their books and character sheets, and passed out crisp new ARMORY Character sheets I'd gotten printed on some nice parchment. And we sat down and made brand new characters for a 2.0 Game. And for the first time, in a very very long time - it's back to being a GAME and not WORK. We've been 2.0 for about half a year now;
NO
REGRETS
AT
ALL