Original poster: "I've come back to the boards after a break, and all these negative threads towards 4e are upsetting."
Other posters: "You're right, editions wars are upsetting and not helpful."
My post: "Editions wars have a place on the board, because there are serious underlying issues with the game that people want to discuss."
I don't know how I could have managed to "not inflame" the discussion, by the loose standards that people seem to be using, other than by a) not posting anything at all (i.e. treating the thread as pure "like-minded support" and not trying to make a valid counter-point to the OP), or else by b) baselessly saying "I disagree, 4e attacks have a place" without spelling out any specific game-related details why that might be so.
But your post wasn't "Editions wars have a place on the board, because there are serious underlying issues with the game that people want to discuss." That might have been your starting point, but you didn't stop there. You continued to outline specific criticisms about 4e.
This thread isn't inviting specific criticisms, its about the validity/invalidity of edition warring. Your point was made without diving into specific details. If you were looking to set up a "for example," you didn't have to go as far as you did.
But just so I'm clear. I never said it was something that couldn't or shouldn't be discussed. My point is that it was off-topic. Since then it's now in its own thread and apparently going along just fine, as it should.
In case you're not catching my drift on why I commented on your post as I did, let me try to illustrate it with the following scenario:
You're hanging out with a bunch of friends and a conversation breaks out about how people are sick and tired getting into arguments about pizza toppings. Let's say one of the arguments is the fact that you really hate anchovies, and your friends know it. You and your friends can all discuss being tired of arguing about pizza toppings just fine. There might be some moments when someone treads a bit carefully, knowing a comment might upset someone, but generally the conversation can go on without really offending anyone. Heck, it might even lead to general agreements on toppings for future pizza ordering scenarios.
But what if one of your friends, who knows you hate anchovies, decides in the middle of the conversation to chime in with "yeah but we should argue about pizza toppings because anchovies are complete awesomesauce." How would you react to that?
Maybe not the most fantastic analogy, but pizza seems to be the common ground for analogies when it comes to edition war commentary ;-)