Hypersmurf
Moderatarrrrh...
Kahuna Burger said:huh? I wasn't aware either was a feminine or masciline, I just can't spell....
"Masculine"

that would explain seeing both spellings around... but I use one pronounciation as gender neutral adn don't worry about the spelling...
Well, just so you know how it can give the wrong impression... I knew you were female, but I don't spend a lot of time in GD... so when I read "... my fiancee...", my first thought - in all seriousness - was "Oh... maybe she's marrying another girl?"
([Seinfeld]Not that there's anything wrong with that![/Seinfeld])
Which made the "chick-half of this duo" note perhaps just a comment on...
... well, I'm going to stop talking there, before I get myself in trouble

And I've NEVER added an e to blond to show it was a woman... thats just silly...
That's English. (Well, French, but English isn't picky about where it gets its words

A blonde woman has blond hair. A blond man has blond hair. A blonde man has issues.
-Hyp.