Congrads
Just came across your post. That is so great that you got married. Marriage is great & I bet my husband was wishing we would have got gaming certificates from some of our guests, but not like he needs them. We have 2 full sized bookshelves almost completely full of gaming books of all kinds & that is even with us not buying books for the past almost 2 yrs or so because when we moved out of state I didn't have a job & am still unemployed. My husband is a full time student working on his masters & doctorate, so that really doesn't bring in much, but it has been the happiest time in my life. We have now been very happilly married for over 4 years.
Wedding planning can be pretty hectic, but I don't think mine was as hectic as yours was. We took around 5 or 6 months to plan ours & even then things were hectic. I think near the end, we almost wished we had just eloped or something like that. The honeymoon sounds great. Hope that you guys have a very happy married life.
Also there can be hope out there for other gamers. You don't necessarily have to marry someone who is already a gamer. I am a converted gamer. I didn't start playing until after I married my husband & I absolutely love it, so don't give up just because there isn't many female gamers out there. You can convert them to it.