You skipped "I am asking why, if the theme of this thread is, "what's appropriate behavior" people are promoting someone known for bad behavior"
I mean, are you seriously saying I shouldn't question "guy known for inappropriate behavior" when he calls for a change due to what he perceives to be inappropriate behavior?
RPGPundit is "influential" but would you be objecting to someone raising this same topic about what he views as inappropriate behavior? This sure seems to come down to "But I like him so it's OK."
What does "more banned than RPGPundit" mean? It means that he's banned at more message boards than RPGPundit - who is known to be banned a lot. Are you saying you don't know who RPGPundit is? If so, he's an old school RPG creator who was a consultant on 5e, who is very outspoken and controversial.
Okay, I'm pretty firmly in the 'this is not about Justin per se/let's not make this about Justin' camp. That said, let's level-set.
I was not here for Justin's departure from Enworld, but I was there for his departure from the RPGPub, and for Pundey's departure from rpg.net*. The two are not comparable. Justin is/can be a typical hot-head, prone to misunderstanding what people are trying to say and taking umbrage too readily (and unfortunately post before reassessing/thinking better of it). As I said
before, I think he does best when forced by the nature of blogging to sit down and construct a thoughtful, probably revised and edited, essay. That's a far cry from levelling threats and, rather than apologizing, creating an entire forum as an attempted middle finger at the board that banned him for said threats.
Justin also is influential in a straightforward, if not especially large, way. He's a blogger with something of a following. This is a far cry from the elaborate shell game of being (as you put it) 'influential' that Pundey has been doing all these years*. It's okay to be a big fish in a small pond, especially if you are straightforward about it.
*I was also on TheRPGsite back when Pundey was complaining about how none of his suggestions for 5e ended up in the final product, before he realized he had to attach himself to it like a lamprey to have a claim of influence.
Seems to me that the real easy answer, the one that addresses Jennell Jaquays' actual complaint, is to spell Jaquays' name right.
I would agree, excepting that we heard that as the initial complaint, and then the decision to move (by Justin) away from using her name at all in the term. We have no indication of what might have been said after the initial complaint. For that reason, my initial instinct is to (ask one of you still on social media to) go ask her what she would prefer (for those of us not inclined to call it Xandering). Barring that (being done or being successful), my instinct is to leave well enough alone/leave her out of this.
Agreed. I had never heard of the term jaquaying. When I explain what an adventure (dungeon or otherwise) is like I always have used the terms railroad or non-linear.
I like non-linear because I find it easier to add modifiers. 'Slightly/partially/very/excessively non-linear' all work fine. To do the same with jaquaying/jaquaysing would require the awkward 'jaquaysing to excess' or the like.
Btw if anyone really wants to honor her contributions, the GoFundMe to help with her current on-going medical issues is over
here.
Did so a while ago. Unclear if there will be additional costs, but probably willing to help again when she gets the hospital bill and sees just how far $50-60k goes in the US medical system
(I'm part of the machine, and so sorry about it. Went in thinking I could effect positive change, not sure what happened along the way).