I just found a copy of Oriental Adventures and am browsing through the feats...
DAMN.
I mean...
DAMN.
So, uh, Chris? Would you be allowing the feats listed in this setting? Specifically, Flying Kick, Earth's Embrace, Choke Hold, and the OA version of Improved Grapple. 'Cuz they're, uh... cool. Yeah, that's it. Cool.
*Cough*
Don't look at me like that. It's not like I'm mad with potential power or anything.
LOOK OVER TH-
*bolts*
Seriously though, I was looking for a way to get an Improved Grab type of effect, and wouldn'tchaknowit, there one is.

IF the OA Improved Grapple gets approved, any chance of renaming the 3.5 Improved Grapple to something like Grapple Focus, so I can still get a feat that gives me +4? If not, I guess I'll have to make due with only a +19. Sigh.
Hmmm... I'm going to have to drop Improved Initiative and Blindfight at LEAST... Looks like Knockdown too. Hmm... How about...
1. Improved Grapple
Human. Earth's Embrace
3. Choke Hold
6. Power Attack
9. Flying Kick
12. Pain Touch
Yeah, that looks like it'd work... Grappling foremost, but can charge-and-smash as well.
I'd do triple damage on a charge, so 3d12+15, rather than 2d12+20. No jump check required, though. Meh.