Ruin Explorer
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Anecdote two: according to my mom, I was diagnosed as gifted at an early age. More recently, one of my friends suggested that she thinks I'm on the Autistic spectrum, and she has experience with that because she has a diagnosed autistic child. Ultimately, I think I'm better for not having it diagnosed if I am Autstic/Asperger's because it doesn't let me use it as an excuse. And yes, I've had experience with people using their disorders as a "get out of trouble/doing work" card.
Wow. No. If you were really Autistic or Aspergers, I mean, really, not diagnosed by an unqualified relative (or, in fact, any relative) or self-diagnosed by the internet, as is fashionable, you would definitely not be "better off" not knowing. Being kind of rude and nerdy doesn't mean you're on the spectrum. It's means you're kind of rude and nerdy.
As for "get out of doing work", well, if you think you're fit to judge that, you're wrong. Period. That's a really bad attitude.