Balesir
Adventurer
Totally agree - no edition of D&D has approached anywhere near an accurate simulation of real combat. I sometimes say that 4E is better than 3.x; I would stand by that to a degree, but it is a bit like saying ice hockey is better than golf for simulating basketball...As for which edition had the 'fakest' combat, I don't think 4e was any worse than 3e.
With the grid and minis out, opportunity attacks flying, proning, flanking, 5' stepping, full attacking – combat in both editions devolved into a complicated, counterintuitive board game – certainly not anything resembling a fantasy simulation of an actual battle.