I also stated that I was perfectly fine with use them or lose them. I just figure that after 40 years of not really using them, losing them is a better option.
Which by my reckoning will start in 2061 at the earliest. We've had 40 years of using them a decent amount at tables.
But, you failed to answer the question. Who's right? You or
@Neonchameleon? You can't both be right.
This is a false dichotomy based on not looking at what is actually being said.
Halflings have 100% of the lore they need
for a race in the PHB. They are completely fine there. And there is so far as I can see no good argument for removing them
from the PHB other than that they are not one of the cool kids and you want to take a hatchet to the PHB, removing at least a quarter and possibly a full third of the races depending on how half-orcs are doing this year.
They are also, so far as I can tell, seriously short-changed in both the lore of the Forgotten Realms and the lore of Greyhawk so far as I can tell. And they aren't even in Dragonlance at all that I recall (no, Kender aren't Halflings). If you are right about 5e adventures they are short-changed there (the only official 5e adventure I own is Curse of Strahd) - and even if you aren't right, assuming you were reading in good faith they are easy to overlook.
I've never been inspired by anything I've seen out of the Forgotten Realms and think I only own one Realms sourcebook (4e Neverwinter) - but this doesn't somehow change the fact that the Realms was the default setting for 2e, 3.X, and 5e and there is a
ludicrous number of sourcebooks for the Realms. It also doesn't change the fact that Greyhawk was the dominant setting in the 3.0 PHB and the default setting back in 1e. And it doesn't change the fact that Dragonlance through at least the 80s and 90s and probably right up until 2004 with Eberron was at least the third and probably for most of the time the second biggest setting in D&D.
To give other examples of how they were short-changed, 2e had a complete book each of humans, elves, and dwarves - and a complete book of gnomes and halflings. The 3.5 racial guides also had the human fronted races of destiny, the elf fronted races of the wild, and the dwarf fronted races of stone - and the dragonborn fronted races of the dragon. Halflings were second in Races of the Wild, Gnomes in Races of Stone.
I do actually wonder whether there's a difference here and those of us who homebrew and work from the PHB outwards think halflings are fine - because they are there. But people who regularly use the big published settings see the lack of care paid to them.
It also casts light on your attempt to remove halflings from the PHB (where they are fine) to the DMG being your attempt to remove the parts that are actually working.
When you fine folks figure it out, let's talk. Until then, what can I do? I can't really argue a point when you guys are making exact opposite points and claiming both are true.
What you can do is start looking at nuances and stop with the motivated reasoning. We aren't a hivemind.
Wait... what? I've REPEATEDLY stated that I have zero problems ejecting any race that is underperforming. How explicit do I need to be?
But you have done
nothing to respond to points about the knock-on effect of removing the lowest performing race and the impact that will have on halflings. You've done
nothing to respond to the point that if you break things down by subrace and apply your crude filter we kick out dwarves.
And you can start responding to the point that neither Tieflings nor Dragonborn came out of nowhere. It seems that you ignore all the points that go against you unless you can find something to nitpick in an attempt to say other people aren't a hivemind.
Now I wouldn't mind this so much if it were a tacit admission that your "points" simply didn't hold water. But you then repeat those debunked points.