Grendel_Khan
Hero
For sure I am not here to defend 5e. I'm reporting my experience because what others said resonated. If it's an enduring topic, perhaps that's for a reason. I for sure sometimes get a strong feeling of "any RPG, but not 5e" in some posts.
For sure, there is some "anything but 5e" sentiment here. But that's an undercurrent throughout the hobby, and I think what's problematic is this notion that everyone should constantly tiptoe around the issue, including by constantly praising 5e's design and never criticizing it.
For example, imagine you're talking about romance in modern film, and specifically the relative lack of sex scenes in them (not just the death of the erotic thriller, but just less on-screen sex in general). Then someone chimes in with the fact that, because basically every MCU movie is PG-13, of course there are fewer sex scenes in movies. And who wants eroticism in movies, anyway, because the MCU is totally good without it, especially anything explicit!
But this isn't a discussion about the MCU, but movies in general, so that tangent is noted and the discussion moves on—it can't be all about PG-13 movies opening theatrically, since streamers are everywhere. What else has changed culturally, and in film specifically?
Now the MCU fans are livid. Why are we talking about some Wong Kar-wai movie no one's heard of instead of talking about Thanos? They like Thanos, and Thanos isn't sexual at all. Also wasn't there a sex scene in Eternals or something? No, not explicit, nothing memorable, but it's there, that covers it. Anyway let's talk about that last scene in Endgame with Thanos. How rad was that? And if you say one more time that the MCU doesn't do something that erotic thrillers do, and doesn't have sex scenes, and has very basic, uncomplicated romantic plotlines, you are telling me it falls short, and that I fall short for liking the MCU.
That, to me, is what dancing around 5e and 5e-only gamers feels like. It's irrational, a waste of time, and a damn slog.