hawkeyefan
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I’ll add more later but this stood out.
Through this particular lens that’s exactly what is being said. Through your lens it doesn’t matter whether something was made up on Tuesday or right before. Through others lenses it does.
Criticism involves lenses. Whereas what most people are looking for is actually ‘the truth’.
Ah, so the negative connotations for game you don't like are acceptable?
I have no problem with someone leveling this criticism of a game if that's what they feel. People can find flaws however they find them, and can discuss them.
But expecting for the phrase to be adopted as an accurate depiction of play, though? Why would anyone do that? Would you accept "Mother May I" as an accurate depiction of trad play? Of course not. I would expect either of those terms to be met with resistance, at least generally. It's possible that in a specific instance of play one may suit. Something like "Man, I didn't like how the GM decided to rule how that spell worked... it made the game feel like X" might be relevant to a specific complaint.
Criticize any game as harshly as you like. People can then engage with that however makes sense to them... they can agree or disagree, or some mix of the two. I'm all for legit criticism.
I think it favors whoever initiates the conversation and decides their paradigm is how the conversation will be framed. On ENWorld... I would say that does seem to mostly be the minority stance as they seem to initiate more of the conversations and set their terminology as the de facto lingua for both stances...
I would say that if you don't see the fact that trad style play is the dominant assumption around here, I don't know what to tell you. It's not always considered "a" way, but often "the" way.
Yup. For people who see there as being no difference, the objection is going to seem utterly nonsensical. I'm not intrinsically hostile to on-time decisions for at least some things, but I think not understanding why this matters to some people is just something Story Now proponents are going to have to learn to accept if they want to have conversations with them that bare on that.
It doesn't seem utterly nonsensical, or beyond understanding. But it's simply a preference. It's no more right or wrong than traditional play.
However, because traditional play is the dominant paradigm, it's often seen as the "right" way to play, and other methods are treated as "wrong".
It's not a lack of understanding the appeal of traditional play, but rather the othering of types of play that are not traditional.