LuYangShih
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The other two are from another Forgotten Realms series of books. I listed characters from different authors, as hopefully you would know of at least a few. I see you do. 
I think Bombadil was CN because he was very independent, and was the only one of his kind I know of who simply abandoned his former status. He is clearly a Druid/Bard of some kind, though, so perhaps it is simply his love for the natural world that drew him to stay in Middle Earth.
Your character is very clearly Neutral, at least, and not Good or Evil. Your character is commited to friends and family, but will not risk herself for people she does not know, from what I gather of your description of her. She is bound to action by personal relationships and desires, rather than a desire to do Good, and she seems unwilling to take callous action to garner what she desires to have.
Enjoying killing other people is evil, though. Love of battle is different from love of killing. She may not kill out of hand, for no reason, or even for the simple pleasure of it, but the fact of the matter is she enjoys ending the life of other sentient beings, a clearly evil habit. I think one of the great conflicts of your character will be whether she is going to develop her personal relationships with other people, (assuming they're good) to the point where she shifts to Good, (as Han Solo did), or she will succumb to her more base pleasures and the demon within instead.

I think Bombadil was CN because he was very independent, and was the only one of his kind I know of who simply abandoned his former status. He is clearly a Druid/Bard of some kind, though, so perhaps it is simply his love for the natural world that drew him to stay in Middle Earth.
Your character is very clearly Neutral, at least, and not Good or Evil. Your character is commited to friends and family, but will not risk herself for people she does not know, from what I gather of your description of her. She is bound to action by personal relationships and desires, rather than a desire to do Good, and she seems unwilling to take callous action to garner what she desires to have.
Enjoying killing other people is evil, though. Love of battle is different from love of killing. She may not kill out of hand, for no reason, or even for the simple pleasure of it, but the fact of the matter is she enjoys ending the life of other sentient beings, a clearly evil habit. I think one of the great conflicts of your character will be whether she is going to develop her personal relationships with other people, (assuming they're good) to the point where she shifts to Good, (as Han Solo did), or she will succumb to her more base pleasures and the demon within instead.