Scribe Ineti said:
One suggestion, if you're young (18-24 or so), check out the armed forces. They'll test you to see where your skills lie, and if you go for it they'll train you, pay you, and give you a direction in life. The service isn't for everyone though, but it couldn't hurt to check it out. Many former armed forces servicepeople find good jobs after their term is up.
i have a feeling this may not be too popular a sentiment, but i have to agree. i did my time in the service and i think it did me a lot of good.
i went to college right out of high school, which was probably a mistake. i didn't know what i was doing there or why i was there, other than it's the thing to do after high school. i dropped out after a year and a half.
i wandered around for another year and a half after that, and eventually joined the army. at that point i was unemployed, penniless, and nearly homeless. no one was hiring, but the army gave me a job and a home.
after the army, i used my GI Bill money to go back to school, at a different college. completed an Associates' degree and decided to take a break from school to go back to work. got lucky and landed a sweet (and highly-overpaid) job as a web developer in Silicon Valley.
after a year and a half, the company i worked for went belly-up in the dotcom crash and i was laid off. i didn't have the right kind of degree or work experience (or luck) to find another job in that industry, so i moved back home to where my family is and eventually decided to go back to school (for the third time, to yet another college).
i'm now studying to be a math teacher, and i really think that's something i can be happy doing for the rest of my life. (at least, it should definitely be more stable a job than the web industry...)
other than that one lucky break i got, every job i've had has paid me more for how much work i could do with my hands or my back, not what my mind was capable of. i really want to get back to using my head again -- i think i'm better suited for that kind of work.
