I would say that the reason a lot of anime is Lame, is because a lot of the stuff that comes Here is lame. There really isn't a whole lot of *good* anime that's been translated for American viewing.
Records of the Lodoss Wars, yes. Princess Mononoke, Yes. Ninja Scroll, Yes. Cowboy Bebop, yes. Uh... What else?
I was turned off to Anime because basicly I couldn't find any *good* anime. But what else is there? Then I started getting my hands on some anime straight from Japan, that's subtitled.
For instance, a show about an organization in Japan that hunts down Witches (Craft users who use magic in detrimintal fashion towards society; ie criminals), called Witch Hunter Robin. It's very good.
Then there's Princess Tutu, which has an interesting take on magic, where a writer of a book dies, before he finishes, and thus magic starts bringing the story to life, to make it run its' course, because stories are magic.
All it takes is sifting through the crap to get to the gems. Like any other median. There are a few good sit-coms (Signfeld anyone?), and a few others, but the rest are just... ungodly.
As for Anime=Porn, um... Has anyone checked out comic books? Those women have huge hoots, skimpy outfits, and still do superhero stuff.
Anime Production Studios do all genres, from action to romance to fantasy to porn. Sort've like Warner Brothers putting out a lot of various genres of movies.