I've never delt with PC vs. PC death In one of my games. I've had examples where it could have happened. but didn't because one of the parties (me) didn't go through with it so that the game could continue. (IE I didn't act in charachter and have my PC attack the other PC)
Basically We are in a somewhat evil campaign. With My charachter being the most good as a neutral Bard. The others were a lawful evil cleric a caotic evil teifling rogue/sorecer and a caotic evil Rogue. The teifling keeps scaring away the NPC we need to talk to by Yelling at them (sometimes from across the room), asking them where the evil god is. Where is name I forget? They are so afraid of the evil god that just hearing his name throws them into a panic and they scream and run off. The party, who realistically should not be working together, warns him that he isn't helping eventualy we seem to convince him to let us (the bard and cleric) to do the talking.
at some point My charachter and his charachter get into an argument on what to do next. I want to visit the church and talk to the local cleric because we gathered information and he seems to know a bit about the cult of this god. The Teifling wants to go down to the dock to look for clues, the evil god is an aquatic god. I notice that the church is on the way to the docks and convince the party that we should stop at the church on the way to the docks. When we enter the church and the cleric starts walking toward us the teifling runs forward and at the top of his lungs yells, "WHERE IS NAME I FORGET?" The local cleric runs. The teifling says something like "Well I guess he didn't know anything lets go to the docks."
I so wanted to fire an arrow into his back. But I didn't We took a break. I cooled down. We finished that session. We played for one session after that. and then stopped.
now that teifling is my roomate (wasn't at the time) we haven't played D&D together since. We did play a shadowrun game that I GMed but he didn't have the chaotic evil crutch to lean on (I disagree with his definition of chaotic evil) pluss I told everyone that team work was important in this and anyone who wondered away from the group (which he had a tendency to do) would easily die (For any SR players out there I was running the Renraku arcology shut down begining on the day it shut down with the players being renraku highschool students.)
I seem to notice a theme. Usually one PC is stealing from, secretly trying to kill, purposly sabatoging, continuously bad mouthing one or more members of the party. They can do it because they are "playing in charachter" but when the rest of the party finds out, gets peeved ect. and acts In charachter the original player gets peeved.
sound to me like durath's friend has a similar personality to my roommate. he like to be in control, the center of attention and likes pushing people's buttons. thinks he's (or really want to be) the alpha dog. I get along with my roomate fine casue I could care less if he's the center of attenton, I am rarely competitave. I'm rather mello.
As for the group who had one PC pay another PC to kill off a charachter that's terrible. and if your charachter's back ground is that he's suposed to kill one or more member of teh party you should expect to die. And I think the DM should be given a few lashes.
Oh well just my 2 . . . dollars.
J
P.S. it sounds like the Halfling rogue vs. Barbarian was an oops by the barbarian. and a he'll back down by the hafling.