The legal one is not so tricky. We, the people, have chosen to live in a society where we elect a government to represent us. Then we give them the power to enact laws on our behalf. Those laws are.. well, laws... you obey them, or break them. Not liking a law because it makes something inconvenient for you is not an excuse to break it, or a means of mitigating your actions. If you don't like the law, work to change the law _legitimately_. Whether or not the law was actually broken will be determined by a court or peers, but if the law says you can't do "x", and you did "x", then you have broken the law.
While you had many interesting ideas in your post, there were a few problems with some of your arguments.
First of all, the intention of copyright is to allow the owner to have a monopoly on their work for a limited time. It was designed to prevent a competitor from profiting from your work. Copyright only became relevant in regards to consumers because of advances in technology.
Additionally, sneaking into a movie theater may be a crime, but that crime isn't copyright infringement.
Also, the part that I quoted, has 2 problems with it. First of all, the legal one is not so clear cut as you characterize it. Fair Use is very tricky, and sometimes it's hard to distinguish between infringement and fair use, and often the judgments aren't even consistent. Some of the scenarios that have been discussed are clearly infringement, however some of them are at least can be reasonably argued as fair use.
And finally, copyright infringement is a tort, not a criminal violation. It will not be determined by peers.