The DM is Wise
Argent Silvermage said:
Has anyone ever faced the type of discrimination as I am?
My brother has, with me DM-ing. He used to play Bards because he didn't actually have any character concept beyond "schmooze with people." He's got magic, sure. And a bow, sure. And decent saves, good enough. And that's it, well darn. These characters were never suited for the dungeon delving expeditions that they were sent out on and were routinely being killed by fireballs or Air Elementals or whatever. So, for the sanity of the group that saw him more as a XP-leech of a cohort, I said simply that bards weren't going to be going on adventures unless they can come up with a dang fine reason.
Since then, he's gone to fight-based characters and he's currently doing a shockingly wonderful job role-playing a troll (
Savage Species progressive monster) in our evil campaign -- the troll can say all of the dumb things that his bards did, but make it sound natural, and do all of the physically devastating things that his bards did and not need to be raised from the dead. His character has the most character in the current game and I'm utterly delighted.
So the moral of the story is that when your DM tells you that you simply can't play what you always play, perhaps it's because your DM has already seen you play it (or live it) and knows that the game needs something other than what you were wanting to bring to the table. And there's a very strong chance that your DM is right. So don't take it personally -- take it as a challenge to bring in a character that's so completely different that will shock and stun everybody (especially the DM) into having a riotously good time at the table.
[Of course, this situation would probably also be different if half of the other people were playing bards -- then my brother would be slighted and I'd be a bastard. But nobody else has a bard. I've only used one as an NPC and he died a quick and humiliating death, all the better demonstrating that bards aren't cut out for hard-core dungeon living no matter how excessively detailed the backstory that got them there.]
::Mr. Kaze (sounds mean, but is easily running the best campaign he's had in years with this kind of biased world-building)