...This too is wrong....
No it's not "wrong", it's just a matter of opinion. The OP asked for input, and I gave my opinion. For you to then come along and call it "wrong" is rude and I am offended by it.
Frankly, a group can use house rules all day long, and as long as they are happy, more power to them. However, eventually what they are playing is no longer the system they started with and it would be easier to play another system. In my OPINION, he passed that stage somewhere around "Grappling is a useless pain in the ass and does not exist." But thats just my opinion.