Crothian said:
Really, so complaining about something not being reaslistic is not that same as complainging about something else not being realistic? :\
Well of course, but it seems to me the context here shouldn't be ignored. The original post was in reference to the portrayal of women in fantasy art. Basically, the women from the fantasy worlds in the art are portrayed unrealistically compared to how they should be in the fantasy worlds, not in the real world. Nonetheless a valid complaint because usually, as in D&D, humans in the fantasy world are physiologically the same as humans in the real world.
Now, what exactly makes something "fantasy"? Very often one of the answers is "magic". It's what makes the world different from reality. I'm not exactly sure how to express this, but I figure you'll understand. Magic is at the core of the whole enchilada. Of course it's unrealistic compared to reality, but it isn't unrealistic when compared to your average fantasy world, because it's one of the things that make it a fantasy world in the first place.
So, unless suddenly the usual definition of fantasy becomes "magic, fantastic creatures, and unrealisitc human beings," then I don't see how the "magic is unrealistic" card can be played in this discussion. And I would argue that the images of the humans in the PHB, while being very little evidence, are a good starting point to show that unrealistic humans beings are not yet part of the average fantasy setting.
A summary, because I can get pretty wordy. Human beings in fantasy are, on average, supposed to be like they are in reality, so even if they are not portrayed as such within the context of the fantasy world, a valid complaint can be made. But magic is not supposed to be like any real thing. It exists solely in the fantasy world, and thus cannot be judged as unrealistic within the context of that fantasy world. Such a complaint would thus not be valid.