I'll be honest, I find interactions with people who aren't curious about new things and prefer to stick to and defend the status quo to be inevitably exhausting in pretty much every phase of life. It's not wrong; it's a completely common psychological profile and almost certainly necessary for broader social cohesion.
But I also don't like it and generally avoid people with that type of personality. So yea, I'm not trying to be maliciously insulting but it's also difficult to act neutrally about it. I will continually try to be as analytical as possible about it but sometimes my internal irritation leaks through.
In the US pickup trucks and large sized SUVs are very popular. Am I just being conservative because I don't want to drive either one? That I'd rather drive a smaller car since I'm not a farmer or in construction where I actually need that kind of vehicle? I'm not defending the status quo because it's the status quo. I'm defending my personal preference of what I want in a vehicle. I understand why certain vehicles are better for some people, that in no way makes them better for me.
I can be curious about new things without wanting to use them. But then we inevitably get endless accusations of misrepresenting things by people who refuse to give examples* or the examples are written with jargon (all games have jargon, it's not a bad thing) so they're hard to follow. Throw in that narrative games and D&D-like games are just approaching gaming from completely different perspectives.
Then we get things like this where you seem to say that the only reason I don't agree that narrative games are better is out of willful ignorance. Why is it so hard to just accept that our preferences differ? Why do you even care what game I prefer? Life would be boring if we were all the same.
*Some people do provide examples which I appreciate. Others do not no matter how many times they're asked