FrogReaver
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I didn't make up the example, and I get that it's a bad one since the cook would almost surely not be in the kitchen, but it's the one that was brought up and is being discussed.
Right and it’s been useful. It’s teased out a lot of I’m okay with this variation of it but not with this. I don’t like that because X. Etc.
In discussions I much prefer simple examples that we can easily modify, because they drive to such points.
I guess if one’s hypothesis is that ‘if people just seen a better example there issues would vanish’ the choice of hypothetical example might really matter, but if it’s just to tease out where the issues lie and what exactly the issues are then something like the cook example is infinitely better IMO.