Elf Witch said:On the other hand one of the things I am finding distasteful is the pro 4E people coping an attidue that if you don't like the changes just shut and go away or implying that the reason someone may not want to switch is because they are stuck in their ways or to cheap to buy new books. That is as insulting as the anti 4E crowd who are saying that people who are happy about 4E are nothing more than lemmings with incapebale of forming their own opinion.
First off, this isn't directed right at you, but is more a general comment.
I'm not in the camp that says if you don't like it pick up your toys and go home. Healthy discussion is a great thing. If you have an open mind and are waiting to see more to make up your mind, that's great, and expressing your like or dislike is just as valid as someone who wholeheartedly embraces 4E.
But I *AM* continually amazed and upset at the people who state time and again that 4E is not for them for X reason, or that due to Y they will never play 4E. And yet, MONTHS later they are in the 4E forums continually complaining about the latest thing they don't like and how it is destroying the game. Buh Wha?
I get that 4E is not for these people for whatever reason, but why do they feel the need to *constantly* complain about something they have said they have no interest in. A reasonable person who had no interest in a thing would not keep going back to that thing.
When I've seen people saying "If you don't like it go away" to me it has been expressing the feeling of "Fine, you don't like it. Why are you harshing my mellow on 4E cause you don't like it?"
Not liking it, that's your right. Go for it. But please, please, PLEASE stop posting 5 messages a week railing against the realism/class changes/healing changes/whatever that will keep you from 4E. We get it already.
Again, this isn't directed at a specific person, it's just my interpretation of what is going on.