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Recently laid off - bored and frustrated

Elodan

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Excuse me while I vent somewhat.

My company decided to change something financially for 2007 so they needed to remove some overhead. They did so by letting 10 of us go. I received a call the week after Christmas while on vacation. I was told that after 9 1/2 years at this company, I no longer had a job. The company gave me a fairly generous severance package (and while on severance they're paying most of my medical insurance) and have been good about helping me find another position.

It's been roughly 10 years since I had to look for a job and boy have things changed. For the most part, things are done via the web and email. I get a couple of calls/emails from recruiters with positions that have little to do with what I've done or what I do. Do they even read the resumes? Out of the 30 to 40 I've had cold call me or had someone refer me to in the past month, I found 3 that I'm willing to work with again. Job search sites can be tough too. I call myself a Development DBA (i.e. I design the the databases and build the SQL that access the DB objects). Do a search on that term and you have to weed through the pure admin DBA and code development jobs. Search on database developer and I might miss the position that's called SQL Developer or Oracle engineer.

The other frustrating part is that you really have no control. You give your resume to the recruiters and to the various companies and hope that things work out to an interview stage but other than making a couple of follow up calls there's not much more you can do about it. I've been told that openings for the type of position I'm looking for is cyclical. Nothing for a while, then a bunch of openings, etc. I hope that is the case (and that we're in a lull).

Finally, it seems like most people think you do nothing all day. I spend at least half of each weekday searching for positions or networking. I'll give them that the rest of my day is pretty empty but there's only so much reading, movie watching (daytime TV is terrible) and hobby stuff you can do before you get tired of doing them. My mother is dying to have me come over and either clean or paint her house.

It's been tough for me as I'm trying to find someplace where I can improve my skills and stay for a while. I also want to make sure I don't rush into a job just because I've had an offer. I did that once and hated the position. Also, I can't really do contracting as I need the benefits and need to feel like a part of the company I'm working for.

The best part of this experience is realizing how many friends I made at that company (some of who have been gone for years and we still keep in touch). I receive a bunch of supportive calls and emails shortly after I had announced the news.

I'm now trying to enjoy some of this time off because, eventually, I will end up working again.

Thanks for letting me vent.

Tom
 

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I was laid off for about 8 months a few years ago. It was in the Boston area too when the job market was absolutely brutal. I was laid off with 300,000 other tech workers in the greater Boston area.

You are doing the right thing by getting started right away though. Take some time to rewrite your resume though. The best thing I ever did was scrap my old and boring timeline resume and write a skill-focused resume. Don't tell prospective employers what you have done - tell them what you can do.

Luckily, I was financially secure to handle it. And I had a blast. Bored?! Not me. I read (a lot), played a lot of games, taught myself HTML, painted, watched movies, etc. Get Netflix!

Overall, it was a blessing in disguise for me because I was able to change fields (and then change fields again), which is what I really wanted to do.
 

I was out of work for pretty much all of 2002 (was working on a project that invovled military-civilian coordination and 9/11 pretty much made it grind to a screeching halt). It was pretty rought, as the job market around here (unless you had a security clearance) tanked for a while. Aside from the financial issues, it took a real toll on morale. I wasn't bored, per se, but there was a definite malaise that came from not being gainfully employed. Volunteering and hobbies and such just didn't fill that same need.

It's good that your previous employer gave you a decent severance package and is picking up the insurance. That'll give you a little cushion, hopefully, and you won't have to worry so much about getting sick.

Personal networking is a big plus, and semi-personal, too -- I know there are a lot of people around here from that area, and while I wouldn't necessarily vouch for someone I only knew online, I wouldn't hesitate to throw out 'Hey, this company I know of is looking for X' in a thread like this.

Don't know about your personal situation, but being willing to accept something a little astray may be worth it -- it sucks being a daily-grind DBA if you're used to doing the brain work (or working helpdesk if you're used to network design, etc), but sometimes that gets you in the door and lets you show an employer that you're capable of so much more. My first job, I started as a temp running the Xerox machine; within a couple weeks they realized I knew more about computers than the people in their IT division, and I ended up (a) making twice as much money, and (b) making some great references for my next job.

Good luck, from someone that's been there and done that.
 

Sounds like you're going in the right direction. I've found networking is the best route to a new job, as recruiters don't understand most of the jobs they're trying to fill.

Some ideas in your off time:

* Learn what's new and hot in your field and do some homework. Maybe you should take this time to get a certification or bone up on a new programming language.

* Sit down and write out EVERYTHING you're skilled at - all your projects, responsibilities, skills, commendations, etc. When you see a job posting, use this huge list of accomplishments/abilities as the source material for writing your resume. The resume MUST match what they're looking for in the job description. When you respond online, you can count that the first person to see your resume is in HR and knows little about what the actual job entails. Having a resume matching the needs is the first call.

* Don't be afraid to go on job interviews where you might not be 100% qualified. You can use the time to brush up your interviewing skills, or find out about other opportunties that the company has. Making a good impression can lead to other positions when they come open.

* Find a list of 100-300 most commonly asked interview questions. Sit down at your PC and start answering them. Rewrite your answers until you have it down as you'd want to say it in an interview. This does two things - it helps you start to frame what you want to say in the interview, and often it brings up other things you've done in the past that you can add to your resume list. A few days prior to any interview, reading over and over your answers. That way when you get in the interview, you're comfortable about what you want to say and not fumbling for an answer.

* Before you go for an interview, visit the company's web site and print out their vision and mission statement. Take these with you, and at an opportune time take them out and refer to them when you make a point about yourself.

* Always, ALWAYS, folllow up within a day with a thank you letter (or e-mail) to the people who interviewed you.

* Take all your good clothes to the dry cleaners NOW before you need them for an interview. One less thing to worry about in the days leading up to the interview.

* Get out everyday and exercise. Make sure you sleep well and don't stay up too late. Eat well and drink plenty of water.

Does this give you some things to do now? :)
 


Piratecat said:
Tom, what do you do?

I'm a SQL Server database developer (done some Oracle work). I've also done database design. I'm looking to do something similar; somewhere I can improve my DB design skills and expand into doing some coding.

bento said:
* Learn what's new and hot in your field and do some homework. Maybe you should take this time to get a certification or bone up on a new programming language.

I just picked up a learn VB.NET book. I was thinking it was a good language to complement my DB skills. I had thoughts of trying to build a basic character generator using it and MySQL as a way to expand/hone my skills now that I have some extra time.


bento said:
* Get out everyday and exercise. Make sure you sleep well and don't stay up too late. Eat well and drink plenty of water.

I've kept myself on a work like schedule (not sleeping in or staying up too late). Drink plenty of water? :)


Thanks all for the advice and feel free to keep it coming. I have my first interview on Monday (good practice).
 





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