@Reynard one of the things I've noticed on this forum, and in other places, is how...
dedicated 5e players are to this particular iteration of the game. People get crazy defensive, even hostile, if you critique 5e or suggest that it's not all that. If you like 2e, play 2e, or try an OSR game (I am currently loving Castles&Crusades, for example). I, too, felt the jarring reality of 5e when I tried to play it with a 2e point of view. They are completely different games.
And I would like to add, the vast majority of people I've interacted with on ENWorld are wonderful, curious, funny, and helpful. This is a good place to discuss things, but the edition wars are real.