CellarHeroes
Adventurer
Some of my other hobbies include sports, board games, and card games. All of these have rules. I like rules, they're what make a game. What makes Spades different from Hearts? A couple of rule changes.In my experience most people are reluctant to deviate from the rules written in the book, even if these rules go against their preferences. I complained about Exalted, and after one campaign with the second edition rules I basically rewrote all the powers and bunch of other stuff to be more of my liking. I have quite a bit of houserules for my D&D game. But most people don't do this. There are a ton of threads on this forum where people complain about some aspect of the game, but they still refuse to implement houserules or even official optional rules that would fix or alleviate the issue. They want the official rules to be changed to their liking. So yes, official rules is what most people will use, and if the discomfort gets too high, like with 4e, they just abandon the whole game rather than change the game.
Since there are SOOOOO many different RPG systems out there, I pick the rule systems I like instead of fixing a system just because it's popular. If I choose to run 5e, I can pick and choose what sourcebooks I want to allow based on the rules added or changed that I don't agree with.