You want a real eye-opener, go read some free-form message board games some time. I even came up with a term for it, "literary munchkinism" (it encompassed some other related phenomena too). They may not be powerful - though it helps - but darn it all if they aren't the most badass thing on two legs. Tends to happen more among the younger crowd, I find. And all my female friends, but that's another story. Although.. let's look at my last few characters..
Ellis Malachy, Kinsai Seer (rolemaster) - very tall, very dark, very high appearance score. Hair in corn rows. Almost.
Arahad, High Man Bard (rolemaster) - very tall, well built, long hair, again very high appearance score. Blonde hair, blue eyes. Almost.
Karik, human ftr/bard going for DD - close-cut dark hair, medium height, very powerful build, about as far as possible from quiet and mysterious. Nowhere close.
Adal Hargrim, half-orc bard - tall, short-trimmed hair & beard, slightly graying from age. Wears spectacles. So far off it's not funny.
What is interesting, though, is how I'm an incorrigible number-monkey, yet I continue to subject myself to charismatic bards or bardly-types. Is this related? You be the judge.
--Impeesa--