"Even the people from your lands who live in utter penury still live a life of comfort compared to what I am used," Lasair says, somewhat mollified, "And Elise is right: You could still apologise, particularly if you hope a return apology from me, as I currently do not have any zij to you at all. Besides, the response you got from me was tame and calm compare to that you would find from any of my sisters...if you ever do encounter Meliana, then you must know that despite her great beauty and ample curves, her temper is quick compared to me, and she would ask you to dance if you ever dared call her soft. And anyway, if your parents could afford this nanny person you spoke of, assuming you did not just invent her as another joke, then that indicates at least a certain level of wealth--and what I say still holds: It is not those who yearn for peace who must have lived a life of comfort and peace but rather those who scoff at peace because they take it for granted. I am no rules-crazy stick-in-the-mud, but I also know that inciting anarchy in the name of the oppressed is an act that will cause more woe than weal."