Cool.
Because this conversation is intersting, despite us being on opposite ends of the gaming spectrum.
SO, if your world is so deadly, in your opinion, (referencing the "Tyrannical King" bit specifically), would a PC with low Charisma and no Diplomacy ranks be sub-optimal? SHould he be punished by the King?
Tell me more about this "style"; what type of campaign do run?
Using RAW? Core Books only? Kitchen Sink style?
This might help me understand.
And throwing a bone a players way (Throwing a special item his way, digging into his background, having his flaw be a CATALYST for adventure, rahter than a punishment) doesn't seem it would change the style or tone of the game.
Speaking for my group only...
We roll up characters togehter.
Typically, at least two of our characters know each otehr in a "friendly" manner.
And I typically tend to fill the "Vacant" role after everyone ele decides what to be. My new charcatre (Eldritch Ivy, Warforged Sorceress) is the first character where I KNEW what I wanted in advance,and made her accordingly.
Again, sounds like harsh DM'ing to me.
Just becase someone isn't optimitzed,doesn't make the PLAYER or the CHARACTER an idiot.
As I said, everyone excels at SOMETHING, and it doesn't have to be combat.(Referencing the Tyrannical King bit..Maybe this "Sub-Op"character is the one to parlay with the king?)