there are also those that agree with him... funny how you always forget that...
Didn't forget it, but it doesn't seem to be as many as you think
now we can debate till we are blue in the face witch set of players is right or more numerous, but neither of us really knows...
We don't need to debate the #s. We can look at the market and see what happened. For people like yourself and Paraxis, you seem to be in the minority of what most gamers wanted. Nothing wrong with your preferred style of play, but it seems obvious at this point you're not representative of the larger gamer market, which is what the D&D brand needs to target. Being the most popular RPG and all.
No really, it's not inevitable, and it does not have to happen, and it really does not happen in my 5e games at all. I make decisions on the fly all the time, and we don't have a dispute erupt at all over it even if I happen to be wrong, because game flow without rules debate is more important for everyone at my table than being right about their view of the rules.
The game isn't the rules.
Yeah, and to be honest, a lot of the experiences some folks have said sort of baffle me. I mean, we're adults right? The last time anyone at any table I ever played at got into a real argument over a rule was when I was a kid. And I haven't played with only the same small group these 30+ years either. I was in the military so we had a different gaming group every month, and I've played a lot at cons with pick up groups and whatnot. It seems to be that some of these experiences are very much the exception.
I mean, even today I don't always agree with a ruling the DM makes, but as an adult, I realize that a) it's just a game, and b) he's the one DMing it, I just shrug and move on. What's arguing the point going to accomplish?
99.99% of my experiences go like this:
DM ruling
Me: "Hmmmm, that doesn't seem to make sense to me. Here's how I interpreted it."
DM: "OK, this is how I felt it means, and how I interpret it in my games."
me: shrug. "Fair enough. You're game. I will adjust accordingly"
or
DM ruling
Me: "Hmmmm, that doesn't seem to make sense to me. Here's how I interpreted it."
DM: "OK, this is how I felt it means, and how I interpret it in my games. But I can see your point. What does everyone else think?"