Swarmkeeper
Hero
Yes, I see that
BUT then people may think that this means that the GM makes the choice (since the Patron is an NPC) and that is really not what I am proposing either.
Ah, I see what you are saying. I guess I'm coming from the perspective of being pretty hands off with Warlocks at my table. I don't think of the patron as an active NPC, really. At our table, the players get to tell the DM (within reason) what the relationship is between the patron and the warlock - which includes how the patron chooses to deliver spells, if that's a thing they want to explore.
How about something like:
Warlock Spell Selection: Does the PC or the player directed patron choose their spells?
That might be a succinct way of letting people know what you are proposing (that is what you are proposing, right?) - plus it could be more attention grabbing, if not even controversial for some.Anyway, not sure that is the right wording either - just a thought.