I'm not even the first or even remotely most prestigious person to notice that. That was the great insight of Bruce Li and much of the impulse behind his Jeet Kune Do innovations. But as much as the magical thinking about stances, forms, and manuevers pervades eastern hand to hand arts, it's at least as bad and if not worse in descriptions of eastern sword technique. I'm not saying that there isn't something in there, but the formalizations of it are highly misleading and lead to something like... well Wuxia and Tome of Battle.
Show me how.
Western martial arts give entirely different descriptions of what happens within a combat. When you learn to fence or box, for example, you learn a basic fighting stance (or sometimes stances), but you don't learn 'forms' like you do in typical eastern schools. You learn about engagement, beats, timing, and so forth. Stances and manuevers is combat as envisioned by Mighty Morphing Power rangers or such, where you formally enter a stance and from there you can now do some secret technique which is then expended after its use. Combat in the Western mind is a series of ever flowing engagements where each defense is the beginning of the next attack. You may shift through some stances, but that's not what its all about.
First off, that's not even how Tome of Battle works.
Secondly, that's not how eastern fighting styles works.
So thirdly, I have no idea where you're coming from on this.
Though I don't play them, I'm told there are some European swordsmanship RPG's out there that do a good job of capturing the feel of parry riposte etc. I presume that they involve both sides of the fight secretly preparing a type of strike and/or defense, and then comparing the two and the weapons involved to determine advantage and more or less literally modelling the fight blow for blow. But I gaurantee that if they are doing a good job, they won't have a character meditating to prepare before the combat a limited set of manuevers that he is then limited to during the encounter. You know what that is? It's not Western swordsmanship; it's Vancian spellcasting.
Ok, so you dislike the swordsage. But there's two other classes in Tome of Battle that don't meditate before going to fight. The swordsage was built off the monk - he's meant to be the mystic swordfighter. But the other two? You've yet to show how the Warblade is in any way magic - or "eastern."