reapersaurus said:Good core principles for a paladin, in my eyes.
To ME, a paladin is a protector of the innocent more than anything.
He will fight evil to his last breath on behalf of those that cannot fight for themselves.
It would not do to recklessly waive an advantage in combat for some point of 'honor'.
Not using the tools at his disposal is effectively shirking his responsibility to protect his charges.
His duty is not a pleasant one - he must bear the mental scars of his battles as well as the physical.
Slaying evil is NOT romantic.
To uphold your precious "code of honor" above your responsibility to protect the innocent against evil is a terrible choice, IMO.
This leads you down an unpretty path, to be sure, but as long as you don't let the death and violence overtake you, and always do things for the right reasons, you should NOT be in danger of grossly violating any paladin's 'codes'.
I agree with this, very well put. A paladin who is genuinely seeking to do the right thing and protect the innocent should not IMO be in danger of losing his paladinhood, even if that requires lying, stealing or sneak attacking the bad guys. Doing so for personal glory or personal gain is another matter.
BTW by 'the many' I do not mean 'the government' or 'the state', I mean merely the greatest number of sentient individuals, especially 'decent right thinking individuals' as Gygax put it in the 1e PHB.