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Really? Are we talking players that are a couple IRL?Nothing wrong with that, but generally it's been between players from my experience rather than with NPCs.
Really? Are we talking players that are a couple IRL?Nothing wrong with that, but generally it's been between players from my experience rather than with NPCs.
This is a fallacy, in that it presents false reasoning.Frankly, if I want sexy art, I look for books or sources dedicated to it. I don’t need it in my RPG manuals- unless the RPG is dedicated to such things, I guess.
I have a strong hunch that when most people say "flirtatious and titillating," what they mean is, "can my fighter have sex with the bar maid."
That last sentence sums up for me the argument against removing controversial content altogether from the hobby or even a mature D&D line.So do I need future editions of the game to feature helpless harem girls with Charisma 18 for all of this? Probably not but I cannot say for certain that I would have come up with the idea if the adventure in question hadn't existed.
This is a fallacy, in that it presents false reasoning.
No significant proportion of the audience is buying non-erotic-focused TTRPGs, videogames, etc. for "sexy art" as were. However, that does not in any way mean that such creations should not have "sexy art" in them. There's an underlying prudish sentiment that's being taken as read, taken as common, when it actually isn't. This idea that media/artwork is either "sexual" or "not sexual". That there's some thick and obvious dividing line, and the related idea - a very American Puritan one, that it's dangerous or wildly inappropriate to expose people to anything "sexy" when that wasn't the obvious focus of the product.
To be clear, I'm not suggesting you're personally a prude, but the idea that unless an RPG is "dedicated" to the erotic, nothing "sexy" should be depicted in it is absolutely a prudish and puritanical idea, and rather culturally specific to the US (albeit disturbingly common there).
The reality is, unless the book is specifically aimed at children, it's probably fine for the artists/creators who make it, to include some artwork which some people will regard as "sexy" or "risque" or whatever. It's not required that it be included, but equally, the idea that it shouldn't be included simply because the RPG isn't "dedicated" to that is a faulty one.
This is important to me because it's a fundamental artistic freedom, and honestly a lot of good art involves an element of sexuality or sensuality. And when people dislike that, or just want to draw lines around what is "okay", it also (surprise surprise) tends to be LGBTQ+ sexuality/sensuality that gets picked up and kicked out first.
Specifically I'll be sad if all/most TTRPGs end up like this - Everyone Is Beautiful and No One Is Horny - Blood Knife
Specifically I'll be sad if all/most TTRPGs end up like this - Everyone Is Beautiful and No One Is Horny - Blood Knife
I know I'm extending a lot from a short post, and I don't expect you intend prudishness or the like, but I do think you're illustrating a poorly-examined/unreflected bias that's unfortunately increasingly common today.
How is this different from sitting down at a table of strangers to play a heist scenario that you didn't write and are told to run/play if you want to participate? If you don't like something, you aren't going to want to have to play it.There’s somewhat of a difference between skipping a book just because it doesn’t appeal to you and sitting down at a table of strangers to play a “fight your way out of slavery” scenario that you didn’t write and are told to run/play if you want to participate.
Yeah and unfortunately it's coming at art from both sides of the political spectrum. On one side, it's being used as a tool to try and relitigate the LGBTQ+ debate (which was basically over, for the most part), and to oppress those groups - and "think of the children" and "it ain't right" and appeals to the idea of "if it makes you uncomfortable, it's inherently bad" are a huge part of that. On the other, you have a lot of what people on Twitter refer to as "22-year-old minors" who are people aged like, 18-30 basically who feel they should never under any circumstances be made even remotely uncomfortable by anything at all, and for some that absolutely includes art or writing which might be considered "sexy" unless it's like, carefully separated off with a massive cordon sanitaire around it. - they're people who basically brought up in the "Everyone is beautiful, no-one is horny" paradigm, or formed their current identities during it - I think this latter group will grow out of it for the most part at least.I agree. This is where I think the whole 'kids 12 and under are part of the audience' thing is being misused somewhat in this discussion. It has become a kind of 'think of the children' argument.