You are the one who insists that not having a +2 to your primary stats prevents people from playing a character.Yup. When the goal is just to discredit the opposing viewpoint, a common tactic is to pretend that even the slightest optimization is synonymous with the most extreme form of optimization. But, as you point out, "minmaxing" is a specific type of optimization. I.e., using Point Buy to get 3 15's and 3 9's is minmaxing. Choosing your race in order to get +2 to your primary stat ain't that.
I find it ironic that somebody tries to play the roleplaying card in an argument about ASIs.
If you refuse to play such a character its on you. Nothing is stopping you to play something else. Don't complain that you always play the same race/class combination.
If other people do it, why do you care? Why do you think you can tell others that they must play different races?
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