wilder_jw said:Gaming is a hobby for mature people, even if they may be young. If people are incapable of handling vulgarity -- and God forbid they recognize those times when its use is valid and even necessary -- then they should probably take up something like doily-making.
D&D is a game about -- among other things -- violence and killing. I find it completely bizarre that the same people who have no problems with extreme violence have problems with a few words, all of which can be heard 2000 times a day at any middle school in the country.
Sorry to hijack the thread, but I feel this needs to be responded to. I was taught at a very young age that using vulgarity is not a sign of maturity - being able to express oneself without using vulgarity is. It's not a case of being "incapable of handling vulgarity". As Wilder points out, it's commonplace. We deal with it every day. It's a case of choosing not to use it.
I haven't read the passage in question, so I can't speak as to that specific example. I can say that 99 times out of hundred, when someone uses vulgarity, it's not really necessary - it's just lazy, or a habit, or immaturity. Erik seems to present a reasonable approach vis-a-vis Dragon: don't use it, but if you do, he'll consider carefully whether or not including it is appropriate.
wilder_jw said:These are the people who forced the removal of "demon" and "devil" from D&D.
No we're not. The people who forced D&D in that direction never bothered to read a Dragon magazine, nor play the game, nor understand what they were talking about. Please don't equate us with closed-minded fools who reacted out ignorance and fear.