it is not the adventuring it is also the profound lack of any goals or how they would survive in a world full of deadly monsters beyond the words they get lucky.
they feel like something that crawled out one of those works the preach if only we just wanted the joys of home, family and good food nothing bad would ever happen which just does not add up it breaks immersion in-game.
they feel like they are out of a fairy tale but without the magic or fun.
All I really want to say to this is...okay. To you they feel that way. I strongly doubt the percentage of dnd players who feel the same is even double digits.
No. I am saying the iconic races should be treated the same.
Display warriors and wizards of all races or none at all.
Racial equality.
I barely have words for how much I absolutely despise this notion. What a direct and expedient way to make halflings a complete waste of page space.
If you want to add a culture of halflings to Rashemen that ride goats into battle, wear wood masks with carefully cultivated moss and train ravens to scout for them, and train from childhood to hunt and kill necromancers and their undead servants, go for it! I do stuff like that all the time.
However, the iconic halfling culture doesn't have standout warrior traditions, or magical traditions, they just have folks. Their warriors are bounders whose training and gear is very practical and who are just John the Bounder. Their wizards are hedge wizard nerds whose magic is probably most practical with some broad utility up their sleeve, and most magic they'd use to defend their town is magic that was invented for something other than battle, or at least can be used outside of combat.
Their adventurers are people who come from a small town that most folk outside of it
don't even know is there, or who grew up in a settlement of another race, where they were the Small Folk amongst bigger, louder, less lucky, less likeable, folk.
That's who halflings are. That is a good niche. If you don't like it, add to your game worlds on your own, or leave them out.
Not really.
I just want it treated equally.
If one iconic race has a warrior trope then they are should.
That would actively make the game less good. No. Gods no.