wedgeski
Adventurer
I don't have a table of min-maxers but I do have six or seven players all with different amounts of stamina when it comes to optimisation. This ranges from "the default feats will be good enough" to "I have a character concept, and I'm prepared to sift through six-hundred feats to create it". Everyone likes an edge, but none of them spend too much time looking for it.
At such a table I have found the problem, if it is one, to be self-repairing. Comments like "Grom's beard, how the hell is your Reflex so low?" or "You hit with WHAT attack bonus?" or "How did one Healing Surge just bring you from nothing back to full?" tend to make everyone look more critically at their own builds. After a few levels, this combined with observing how your own PC performs levels-off most discrepancies at the table.
At such a table I have found the problem, if it is one, to be self-repairing. Comments like "Grom's beard, how the hell is your Reflex so low?" or "You hit with WHAT attack bonus?" or "How did one Healing Surge just bring you from nothing back to full?" tend to make everyone look more critically at their own builds. After a few levels, this combined with observing how your own PC performs levels-off most discrepancies at the table.