So, I'm not quite sure what you are getting at here. I'm trying not to interpret it negatively, but it doesn't read as super inclusive.
I run a pretty PG game, both at school (obviously) but more or less at home, as well (just the way our tastes run - occasionally there's a bit of sauciness, but then we cut to black or whatever).
And I also run a game that is emphatically LGBTQ+ friendly. There is quite an overlap between Pride Club and D&D Club, and over the years many students have used D&D as a way to quietly start coming out, by creating a character that is gay, or asexual, or nonbinary, or trans, or whatever. That is NOT sexualizing the game; it's not about sex at all because we don't do sexy stuff in those games. It's about identity and players feeling safe to express both their own and that of the character they create and roleplay.
My own spouse is non-binary, and before telling me, they started with the non-binary goblin character that they have played, in several incarnations, for years. There is nothing about gender or adult, consenting sexuality that causes friction. Intolerance causes friction.
D&D should feel like a safe space for everyone to be themselves and roleplay their characters accroding to the gender and sexuality that suits them.