Our prayers to your family
You have made your appeal to the people that represent us, continue to do that yourself, also consider contacting your local government officials- the Govenator as well as your mayor, and city counsel. The more people that know of your plight the better off you will be in the end. Record the dates and times, and whom you have contacted, this could help you should you get onto TV, as well as make a dialog possible, this means save all your letters (received and sent).
I would most definitely make an effort to write letters directly to the people of direct interest- Senators and Representatives. Using their names will get their attention.
Do not sign anything- should someone suggest that your wife sign something, she needs to tell them “I need to have my attorney look at this first.” Hearing that she has an attorney and not just a JAG should make them concerned and give them a desire to ask you the all-important question- “what do you want to make this go away?”
Your wife should use a recording device when speaking to anyone that of authority about these matters or when these matters come up. Have her state plainly- “I need to get my digital recorder out to have this conversation or my attorney needs to be present.”
Log all conversations into a notebook, with anyone of authority, keep notes and things to help her recall things when she gets into a court situation.
My prayers go out to you and your family. I had hoped that our military had more respect for those that would sacrifice their lives for our beliefs. I suppose I was wrong however.
Thanks to you all, esp. you that have served, you honor us with your sacrifice.