Crimson Longinus
Legend
What you said earlier sounded a bit different to me. But sure, people will play adventurers that are willing to take risks in a game about adventurers facing constant danger. And if they wouldn't to some degree, the game couldn't exist. This doesn't mean you cannot portray these characters with actual people with personalities, fears, hopes, flaws etc. But if you want more down to earth stuff, then you need to structure the game differently. Different games are about different things, and D&D is about adventure and facing dangers.I don't mean to imply people are bad roleplayers. I mean that most people roleplay dramatic figures -- heroic or otherwise -- rather than real people. We don't watch most action heroes have to take a potty break or get snippy over something minor. Like most forms of entertainment, RPGs focus on the "fun stuff" and that is totally understandable -- especially when most RPG stories are somewhere between B horror comedy and MCU action comedy.
I am just saying that sometimes I want characters that feel more real.